1.尋求意見

    1 ）聊聊男女關系：

    "I need a girl's opinion about something I was just discussing with
a friend who broke up with his girlfriend. He made out with another woman
straight after his relationship break up. Is he a jerk？"

    "I want a woman's perspective on this. I was just talking a friend
who had broken up and his girlfriend keeps calling. Why does she do it？

    "

    女人們總是樂于分享自己對于男女關系問題的看法，因此這類問題是向女孩
發起談話的好工具。

    2 ）問些爭議話題：

    "Who lies more： men or women ？"

    "Is it wrong to break up with a text message？"

    如果你向一群女人拋出這樣的容易引起爭議的話題，那你就可以等著看她們
兩眼放光、嘰嘰喳喳沒完沒了了。

    2.玩笑調侃

    1 ）適當運用搭訕語：

    "I play the field ， and it looks like I just hit a home run with
you."

    （順便來學兩個習語：play the field意為“跟很多人交往，與很多人發生
感情關系”；home run是全壘打的意思，引申為大獲全勝，hit a home run就是
說“做某事非常成功”。）

    "You're like a dictionary ， you add meaning to my life ！"

    "Do you have a sunburn， or are you always this hot ？"

    “搭訕語”就是那些故意說出來引起異性注意的話，說得難聽點有些類似
“泡妞語”，但是運用得當的話也是發起談話的好辦法。當然必須注意要讓女孩
知道你是在開玩笑，否則可是很有挑逗的意味，會被認為是在耍流氓噠！

    2 ）輕描淡寫開玩笑：

    "Nice boots. Do you have your horse parked outside？" （horse boots
：馬護腿）

    "Nice shoes. They look comfortable."（這句小編不理解的說……難道是
指看上去舒服其實穿著不舒服？求高手解答！）

    "Nice top （上衣）。 My grandma has one."

    輕微地說些嘲弄的話可以引起女孩發笑，之后你就等著被她反擊吧！

    3 ）問上一句，"Are you friendly ？" 記得配合上懷疑的眼光。然后，"Good，
I'll talk to you."放心吧，沒有女孩會對你說“不”的！